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When and How Should I Get Married?

Talk to a few married couples and their stories will all be completely different.

Some will have dated for years and then planned an extravagant wedding months in advance, whereas others will have known each other for just a couple of months and decided to get married one night on a whim.

The perfect time to get married is…

…when you feel it’s right.

Think about the act of getting married in general. Is there a certain formula to know when you love your partner enough to make the leap? No, there really isn’t.

Love is unique in that we understand almost nothing about it. It can’t be measured quantitatively, and anyone who tries to misses out on the true, captivating emotion of it.

Marriage can be spontaneous, or it can be calculated and thought out with extreme detail. It’s all about what type of person you are. Don’t let others in your life dictate when you should pop – or answer – the question. Just do what feels right.

The date is set: big or small?

When trying to determine how big your wedding will be, it’s important to remember who the wedding is for. The wedding isn’t for your family, it’s not for your friends; it’s for you and your spouse.

If you want it to be a day that’s permanently engrained in the memories of your guests, then a big wedding might be right for you. Grandiose food, decorations, and entertainment can match the feeling that you and your spouse have when thinking about marriage.

Maria & Nick are a great example of a real wedding couple who went big. Their wedding at St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church had a whopping 350 guests. Read more at Wedding Guide Chicago.

Some people aren’t into big events. In fact, for some people, the thought of talking to distant acquaintances on their big day isn’t appealing in the slightest.

Jan & Claude went this route. Their wedding was classy and memorable, but it only had 20 guests – for every 17 people at Maria & Nick’s, there was only one at Jan & Claude’s. It took place in a small garden with a tight-knit group of people who had known both of them for years. Read more about their wedding or other Chicago wedding couples at our blog.

Different weddings for different types of people. Who would’ve thought?

Really, don’t sweat it

There’s no right or wrong answer to when or how you should get married. The day is about you, and you should do whatever makes you the happiest.

Some couples choose massive, expensive weddings with hundreds of people. Some go the opposite route – in fact, we’ve seen plenty of couples who decided one day to get a marriage certificate and skip the wedding entirely.

Remember – no matter what you do, you’re getting married! The day will be magical no matter what happens. We invite you to read more about the different types of weddings each couple below experienced by taking a peek at our wedding website now.